5 Ways on How to Become Silently Attractive

Doris Kono
3 min readJun 19, 2022

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I can’t remember the number of times I had to stop whatever I was doing to shamelessly stare at a person because of their striking attractiveness. In this, I know I am not alone.

Being attractive indeed holds a significant amount of power, which we are all capable of leveraging. The good thing is that anyone can master this glamour art as it is not only restricted to supermodels and film stars.

Most of the time, after catching that awkward gaze, the individual will do something that will change my perception of their beauty. For instance, when they give me that death stare or roll their eyes.

It is even weird that this happens to people I deem not attractive at first glance. I can assume that their attractive characteristics and attitude draw me to them, and thus I find them attractive.

Strange! Right?

Well, beauty and attractiveness do not necessarily equate to the physical appearance but rather how one presents oneself; that is your attitude, character, mannerisms, and habits. All these factors play a role in determining whether people will perceive you as being attractive or not.

So, having said all these, let’s explore how you can be silently attractive.

  1. The way you dress.

Find a style that best fits you.

Every woman has a unique body shape. Some have hourglass figures, and some have no curves. Some are pear-shaped, while others have an apple shape.

You instantly become more attractive by understanding your body type and wearing clothes that best suit you.

When choosing clothes, it is also important that you find the right colors and are comfortable with what you choose to wear.

2. Posture

A good posture capture anyone’s undivided attention. You can silently use it to showcase your beauty and attractiveness. However, to some, it may some useless and a waste of time. Do not be like most people who overlook the importance of this simple and effective action.

I am not saying that you now stop slouching or start doing all those things we were often told to do. I am saying that whatever you’re doing, sitting, standing, or walking, make sure you’re doing it looking good. Your aim should be to look like a supermodel but silently.

Trust me, people notice.

Therefore, ensure that when they notice you, they equate you to a living art. Be an unforgettable masterpiece.

3. Smile

There is nothing that entices people than a warm and welcoming smile.

Whether you realize it or not, people notice your facial expressions, and often, they use it to gauge whether you’re approachable or not.

You do not have to smile the entire time you’re out. However, make an effort of doing it. Trust me; the feedback is almost instant.

4. Mannerism

Weirdly, you can be physically attractive with all the desired features, but a majority of the people deem you unattractive as their first impression of you.

Well, this is no surprise.

How you carry yourself and the small things you do can either make you attractive or not so attractive, even with your striking physical appearance.

Have you not heard that you should never talk with food in your mouth, curse, or chew gum loudly.

Yes, these are some of the things that may seem harmless but can go a long way in ruining people’s perspectives of you.

Even if everyone in your circle doesn’t find it fit to practice these simple mannerisms, then by you doing it, you’re effortlessly standing out and can be deemed as attractive even if your physical features say otherwise.

5. The way you smell

Strive always to smell good.

The scent you give can make people come to or away from you.

Whether we like it or not, humans do smell each other. Our body first tells us about their odor print when we meet an individual. Moreover, these body odors give clues about our identity and health to those around us.

However, there is nothing more attractive than a woman who smells good. It makes interaction around her so easy and alluring.

Therefore, be careful when you choose that signature smell. Having a great scent is a silent way of attracting attention to yourself.

Well, this is a wrap for today. Be sure to share and follow for more amazing content.

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